Why Your Vibe Should Influence Your Tribe.

Whew, talk about not enough time in the day! Between being a mom, a new business owner, and a creative spirit, I have so much that I want (and need) to do! I’m going through the motions doing everything as fast as humanly possible before I take a step back and say “woah, what are you rushing for?”

I have to remind myself to take a breath and remember that this is at MY pace. I’m on MY timeline. I don’t need to rush my life. For who? For what?

Everything is aligning as it should and I’m making progress each and every day. I am loving the path I’m heading down. I love spending each and every day with my kids, even if it is a 24/7 no break job! I enjoy staying up late to work on my own business, doing something for me!

I know I will not accomplish every single thing I want to do in a 24 hour time period because new things are always popping up. Life with kids never goes according to a set schedule.

The work will never be done. And in order to reap the benefits and fulfill my dream life, I’m going to continue to work every single day on being my best.

That is what I’ve been doing and y’all, it’s freaking amazing.

The overwhelming feeling of doing it all and knocking out goals left and right is AWESOME. I couldn’t be more thankful or excited.

But it’s all aligning and happening, because of the force within me. Because of the work I’m doing, mentally and physically.

Do you remember in 6th grade or so learning about inertia and external forces?

“Inertia is the resistance of the object to any change in its motion, including a change in direction. An object will stay still or keep moving at the same speed and in a straight line, unless it is acted upon by an external unbalanced force.”

Your life, your body, your mind is going to stay in inertia – going down the same path you’ve always gone down and feeling stuck in this same routine with the same complaints unless that force from WITHIN you shifts gears and leads you to the right way.

That force comes about once you start working on your mindset and figuring out who you are.

What kind of person do you want to be?

Are you doing everything for the highest good?

Are you bringing that good energy to the world like you would imagine yourself doing?

You have to build yourself up and talk positively. You have to believe that you deserve and can achieve EVERYTHING you think about wanting.

You can create your reality by speaking it to existence and acting on it.

The number one thing you can do to achieve that, is to surround yourself with like minded, goal oriented, positive people who have the same vision as you.

As much as I hate to say it, you have to separate yourself from people who aren’t yet on the same page as you.

This doesn’t mean you have to cut them out of your life completely and never talk to them again. Of course not.

But you can’t be sitting around hanging out with these people all day everyday, if these actions aren’t contributing to your best self.

You have to align your energy with the same kind of energy and vibes that you’re putting out. Otherwise there will always be friction.


you’ll just continue in that same straight line never allowing your energy to burst through that wall of friction.

Your energy and confidence will continue to grow when you’re surrounded with people who are thinking like you.

And even if that’s virtually surrounded.

We live in a technology filled world. Look at your newsfeed, twitter feed, snapchat groups.. are you filling your thoughts with positive vibes and uplifting material? Are you able to cheer on your friends and their successes?

If not, you need to do some major cleaning up and go find those positive people who will influence you to be your best freakin’ self.

If you’re watching other people being stagnant, complaining, making excuses, and just plain ol being Debby downers, it’s ok to take a step back from them.

It’s ok to want to surround yourself with more.

It’s ok to love from a distance.

It’s ok to want more from yourself. But you have to WANT it. You have to DO it. No one can do it for you.

And no one can do it for them either. You can lead a horse to water by being a great person and showing them that positive lifestyle. You can try to influence them to do better,

but you can’t make them drink the water.

They have to want it for themselves. And until then, you have to move forward and step into your next pair of shoes.

We’re all capable of greatness. We’re all here to live our best life. So go out there and make it happen.

To surround yourself virtually with positive, like minded women, come join my Facebook group.

Featured photo credit to Amaris Crystal Photography

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